Valentine's Day

Summing up:  Be agreeable, be sympathetic,

be loving, be compassionate, be humble.

That goes for all of you – no exceptions.

No retaliation.  No sharp-tongued sarcasm.

Instead, bless.  That’s your job – to bless.

You’ll be a blessing and get a blessing.

1 Peter 3:8-9

Saint Valentine’s Day was established in 496 AD by Pope Gelasius to honor a Christian martyr named Valentinus.  The day first became associated with romantic love in the High Middle ages during the time of courtly love, and by the 15^th century it was a day for lovers to express their feelings through gifts of flowers, confectionaries, and eventually, greeting cards.  Today it is celebrated in hundreds of countries around the world, and although still associated with romantic love, the day gives opportunity for friends and families to express their affection for each other as well.

When my children were little, I tried to save a few pennies to buy them a special candy treat that would be given to them on Valentine’s Day.  As they grew older and were often away at school in February, I would mail them a reminder of some sort – usually chocolate for the oldest and youngest, and perhaps jelly beans for the non-chocolate middle daughter.  This year, I found a very economically priced gift of naval oranges and chocolate to send to the girls; I, in turn, received a beautiful e-card early this morning from my youngest. Being reminded that someone loves you is a wonderful way to start the day.

I am tempted to print Peter’s sage words above on a piece of red paper, cut it out in a heart shape, and tape it prominently where I can see it early in the morning before I start my day.  Expressing your love and friendship for those around you needs to be a daily experience, not just on a commercial holiday.  A smile, a compliment, a note of appreciation, a kiss, a hug, a nod of approval, a whisper of encouragement, a helpful hand, a word of compassion – all of these have far greater power and impact on the life of the receiver than a box of chocolates can ever deliver.